Can we full-time while
still young (40s)?
Posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999 at 10:07:43:
My husband and I are
43 yrs. old. We have SERIOUSLY been considering
quitting our jobs,
selling our home & belongings and become full-timers. We
have a motorhome and
love it! If we sell our house, we can pay off ALL debts
and purchase a new
motorhome (ours is a 1988). We then would like to travel,
staying in places
for several months and get jobs at those locations, then move
on. I guess my question
is, are we CRAZY, at 43, to consider this lifestyle. We
continually discuss
this, and in our hearts, it's what we REALLY would like to
do. Any advice or
guidance? Thanks!
Posted by Bike Potato on April 05, 1999 at 19:33:09:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
My wife (35) and myself
(40) are also looking into fulltiming it. But having
part-time jobs along
the way. Found a lot of information on this site about
finding jobs. We are
going to sell everything except our motorcycles, get a
trailer and pull it
with a motorhome. Spending time in warmer states in the
winter really interests
us both. Then coming north in the summer. Done a lot of
traveling on the motorcycle
two weeks a year. But can only go so far and see
and do so much. Staying
in one place for six months, working 3 to 5 days a
week and being able
to do some riding on the bikes to check out the different
states sounds very
interesting. Thinking of getting a 17 foot enclosed
motorcycle trailer.
Anyone have any ideas on the length of a Motorhome we
could go and still
get into campgrounds? I know State/national parks might be
out.
Posted by Nancy on March 23, 1999 at 23:23:08:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
We will soon be full-timers.
Retiring young and traveling has always been our
dream. It sounds
crazy but we are going to try it. It will be an adventure for
us. Since I do not
have a lap top, I plan to keep a journal. I want to document
our travels., especially
our first trip which will be to Las Vegas. I have my
camera, camcorder
and journal book ready. Is anyone else keeping a journal ?
nancybronx@aol.com
Posted by Snookie Quinn on March 16, 1999 at 15:26:08:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
Pam, I could
have written the letter you wrote. I would like to email you but
there was no
address available. Please contact me. SnookieQ@aol.com
Posted by Donna Yeaw on March 10, 1999 at 10:56:37:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
It's been a little
over a year since my husband and I quit our $120k+ year
management jobs and
hit the road full-timing. We sold our home & our stuff,
bought a used 35'
motorhome and we now travel while we work. We lucked
into job following
fiber optic construction around the country. The downside is
the fact that the
projects prevent us from traveling very much. The upside is that
Mike got a permanent
position (I'm still a contract employee). We have never
looked back. It is
the best feeling to be in a great camp site on a Sunday night,
watch everyone packing
up and heading home and realize that WE ARE
HOME! http://www.suite101.com/welcome.cfm/rv_lifestyle
Posted by Mrs P on March 03, 1999 at 21:54:24:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
I hear more and more
about couples wanting to retire (young) and go RVing
full-time. We will
be doing just that this year. Friends & family think we are
crazy. But we are
going to give it a shot and make 2-3 long trips to see if it is
what we always dreamed
of. Our children are grown and we always planned to
enjoy early retirement.
We will keep our home for now just in case we change
our mind. But we want
to go out there and enjoy the freedom and travel all
over the states and
see this beautiful country. Friends kid us about our traveling
in a "chuck wagon"
even though we upgraded our trailer to a '98 TT - 30ft -
slideout **garden
tub, satellite dish . . . . etc. We are going to go for it. I don't
want to be old and
say " I wish we would have gone ahead with our crazy idea.
There's alot of couples
with the same crazy idea :) So I guess it can't be that
bad. Good Luck
Posted by Cyndie on March 03, 1999 at 00:39:21:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
I am a single 44 year
old female about to embark on this adventure. I have two
dogs that will travel
with me...right now, I am planning to take a year to decide
what and where is
my next adventure...I have over 20 years with my company
and retiring scared
me but I prayed and everything is falling into place. I feel I
have stepped off the
cliff but trust I won't go "splatt" at the bottom...I plan to
enjoy the ride and
be open to what my possibilities are...good luck.
Posted by Linda on February 18, 1999 at 05:04:30:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
Pam, Everyone assumes
that you have to retire or be on the road all the time to
be a fulltimer. My
husband and I have lived in our fifth-wheel since 1988...we
both work (I'm customer
service at a large retail store and he's a letter-carrier)
and won't be retiring
for a few years. We take one long vacation every
year, usually to visit
family out of state or to see something new. We
decided to start enjoying
the RV lifestyle NOW rather than someday....who
knows what our health/circumstances
will be in our golden years? It is a
decision we've never
regretted.(We have a 27" tv w/satellite-feed with
surround sound, computer...all
the goodies.)When we travel, the scenery
outside changes, but
we still sleep in our own bed. Anyway, I hope this has
helped you out a little.
Read, ask questions, and find out all aspects so you can
make an intelligent
decision for yourself. Best fo luck, and feel free to E mail me
if you want. Linda
Handie
Posted by Kevin Bertoni on February 15, 1999 at 14:13:29:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
Hey Pam, I thought
you would like to know that you are not alone with your
"heavy thoughts."
My wife (Pamela) and I actually "full-timed" for the first time
in 1994. I was 31
and she was 35. We took a 2 year leave of absence from
our jobs, put almost
everything in storage (mistake) and took the rest with us
(another mistake)
What was NOT a mistake was doing it! We actually livd in
the coach for about
a year and traveled mostly the West coast and southern
US. At times we would
park the rig and stay with family and friends (YEP, you
guessed it, MISTAKE)
I say that with some humor but also with some
wisdom. That is, Do
what is in your heart. We really enjoyed the time we had
as full timers, at
31 & 35 no less! What we learned was we didn't have a plan.
We brought to much
stuff. We kept to much stuff and we really didn't know
where to go to "get
away from it all" so we ended up taking it all with us and
going from one families
house to another. Dot get me wrong, we really enjoyed
the opportunity to
do what we did, we would just make better plans next time.
We have been out of
the coach for 4 years now and bought a BIG house and
have 5 cars and we
still have the Motorhome! Believe it or not we are
considering doing
"it" again. This time with passion. SELL SELL SELL we are
going to get rid of
everything that we can and just keep the personal stuff
(pictures, heirlooms
etc..) We don't have the option of a leave of absence this
time so we are going
to quit or jobs and work along the way! Yes, its scary but
I know in my heart
its what we need to do. And hey if it doesn't work out
forever (and what
is forever) we can always sell the rig buy a house and get a
"real" job! (Naaaa!)
Good Luck! and Take Care! PS I have lots of stories
about our experience,
feel free to email me if you would like.
Posted by Bonnie Rick on February 14, 1999 at 07:42:06:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
Jim, we know exactly
what you are going through. We are both 52, but we
have been planning
this for almost 5 years. We have read every book on the
subject and that's
how we got to reading the Hofmeister's web page. My
husband and I are
too young to actually retire and will have to work on the
road. We took the
big step last fall and sold our house in the mountains of
Colorado and sold
everything in it. We do have a small storage room for things
that we can't sell
right now (family heirlooms, etc.) We still have our jobs in
Golden, Co. and are
living in our camper close by, but plan to leave in 3
months for Alaska.
After that we will be looking for work -- probably
somewhere warmer in
the winter. I used to ask myself "if I were to die
tomorrow (sounds dramatic!!!),
what would I regret?" It definitely would be
trying this lifestyle.
We love RVing and are looking forward to time on the road.
We have a plaque on
our wall in our camper that is a quote from Mark Twain
-- "20 years from
now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't
do than by the ones
you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the
safe harbor, catch
the tradewinds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
Posted by Lily on March 07, 1999 at 10:29:12:
In Reply to: Re: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Bonnie Rick on February 14, 1999
Thanks for the quote
- I think I'll needlepoint it on a pillow and keep it around
to always remind me
to take the life-enriching risks that I sometimes get afraid
to take. You gave
a lift to me today and helped me put a final stamp of
approval on rving
full-time. The kids are grown, the house is for sale, all I've
got to find is the
perfect motorhome (and maybe the perfect man to travel with).
Thanks again - we
need this kind of support.
Posted by Paul Hosek on April 06, 1999 at 06:16:20:
In Reply to: Re: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Lily on March 07, 1999 at 10:29:12:
I know how Cyndie
and Lily feel. I am being laid off from work the last of this month.
I just turned 61 last
Saturday and was divorced Feb 4th so I'm going to try the open
road and see what
I can find. I have a 35 foot Snowbird with a slide and a 1 ton Dodge
dually so I'll be looking
for you on the open road.
Posted by Jim on February 11, 1999 at 23:02:16:
In Reply to: Heavy Thoughts
posted by Pam Sadler on February 10, 1999
Pam: I'm 47 and my
wife is 52. We have talked about the same thing you are.
I'm self employed
as a forester. I thought you had to be retired to do this, but
I'm finding that this
just isn't true. We have a beautiful home and a 5th wheel. I
too would like to
sell and go on the road. My wife is not as excited as I am.
Her family is here
and so are our kids 18-19-23. We are going to try it for a
month this summer.
This will take a lot of planning with 5 employees, I'll have to
teach my kids to take
care of payroll and such while we are gone. It will be a
lot of work but we
want to see if this is really what we want to do.I hope my
wife is excited about
it when it is over. We live in the pacific northwest
(Washington coast area)and
I would like some drier weather. Keep
us in touch with your
decisions and experiences with your full timeing.
Thanks-Jim |